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Thursday, December 29, 2005

A Gift Of The Heart

i received this via email - i thought it was nice...
Letting People Know You Love Them

It's easy to take our feelings for granted and to assume that the people we careabout know how we feel about them. But while those we love are often quitecognizant of our feelings, saying "I love you" is a gift we should give to ourloved ones whenever we can. Letting people know you love them is an importantpart of nurturing any kind of loving relationship. Few people tire of being toldthey are loved, and saying "I love you" can make a world of difference insomeone's life, take a relationship to a new level, or reaffirm and strengthen asteady bond. Everyone needs to hear the words "I love you." Three simplewords - I - Love - You. When you declare your love for someone you admit to themthat you care for them in the most significant way.

It can be difficult to express your love using words, particularly if you grewup around people that never expressed their affection verbally. But you shouldnever be afraid to say "I love you" or worry that doing so will thrust you intoa position of excessive vulnerability. It is important to share your feelingswith those that matter to you. Part of the fulfillment that comes with lovingsomeone is telling them that you love them. Besides, love exists to beexpressed, not withheld.

If you love someone, let them know. Don't be afraid of the strength of youremotions or worry that your loved one won't feel the same way. Besides, thewords "I love you" are often best said to another without expectation of areturn investment. As each one of us is filled with an abundance of love, thereis never any worry that you'll run out of love if your expression of love isn'tsaid back to you. Saying "I love you" is a gift of the heart sent directly viawords to the heart of a recipient. Even though it may not always look that way,love from the heart is an offering that is always unconditional and givenwithout strings attached. That is the true essence of the gift of "I love you."

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