We all have difficult times in our lives, but when you see something happen to someone you love, you just want to go out and kick the ass of the person that hurt your loved one.
The thing is, when you are going through it, we all have tendency to put our blinders on and say "no, it's gonna be alright, it's gonna be fine, we/you/I'll get thru this." The whole time our loved ones are telling us, "man, you are getting screwed, he/she is treating you like shit, can't you see what he/she is doing to you?" whatever... we never know until it actually happens, and when it does, man does it suck... more than you know
me being the eternal pessimist may have a tendency to be like "whatever" a bit more than others.... until recently, i have always been "this ain't gonna work" but i have recently been thru something that left me optimisit... i would hate to see my thoughts on that change.... because if and when they do, all i will do is beat myself up even more about it saying " you dumbass, you should have known from the start that it would turn out this way"
but this post isn't about me, it's about my daughter, who just got the proverbial "punch in the gut".... all i can do is be there for her and tell her that it's going to be ok....
i hope it is....
No comments:
Post a Comment